Quitting Chewing Tobacco….? 11 Tips to help you quit dipping for good
Have you been trying to quit tobacco but have just struggled to make it over the hump? Are you tired of feeling like you are beholden to some overarching tyrant? Have you tried or thought that quitting chewing tobacco is just too difficult?
I had these same thoughts over 2 and a 1/2 years ago, but then made it over the hump because of the 11 Tips I share below. These tips helped me quit chewing even though it was something I did for 20 years and absolutely loved it especially while outdoors camping, hunting and fishing most.
I want to also be there for your support as you go through the process so send me an email and I will help to hold you accountable. Also, I found the inspiration for writing this article from a similar article at Girlycamping.com about quitting smoking.
Also, please leave a comment below and join the group of people that are on this journey with you. Here’s a great link that was shared in the comments below that has also helped a bunch of people to quit dipping – http://www.quittingdip.com.
My Quick Story
I started chewing tobacco in high school and continued until I was 37 years old. Yes, about 20 years of tasty nasty copenhagen goodness. I quit chewing tobacco 2 and ½ years ago and now want to tell the world that I feel great, and I don’t want to go back to it.
I also want to let you know that if I can do it you surely can. I know this because I have that addictive personality. Everything I do, I do in excess, or at least used to do in excess. Now that I have kids my priorities have changed and I am much healthier and less in excess.
I want to cover a few tips that helped me and will hopefully show you how to quit dipping. I am going to be honest and tell you I didn’t quit the first time I tried. I’m not sure how many times I tried but it was a good handful of times. An important thing to remember through this process is that every time you try quitting you are a little closer to getting over the hump.
There is no question that the best time for me to take that dip of chew was out camping, hunting and fishing. There was nothing like putting that dip in my mouth early in the morning and heading out to catch a big fish. Or getting my animal down, putting in a chew and dressing it out.
The Benefit of Not Dipping
I am sure today that those outdoor activities would still be great with a chew in, but it’s actually better without now and here are a couple of reasons why. The health stuff is obvious so I am not even going to mention that here. You can take a look at this link from WebMD to see the health stuff.
I do want to mention a few big bonuses here. One big benefit is that I am not constantly thinking about when the next chew is. It’s so nice to do things now without that in the back of my head.
I actually get more done now because before I had to have a chew to get something accomplished. Now I just get stuff done at a higher rate. I feel much better now physically and mentally.
I had started to develop a nasty side effect from what I assumed eventually was from tobacco. I went into the doctor and they gave me some pills to take care of the heart burn. But after a few weeks I had to ask myself a question. Do I want to take pills for the rest of my life? Or just just get to the bottom of what is creating this side effect?
Well, it was the chew and nicotine that was causing the problem. After quitting I have not had any heart burn. And these symptons come in many varied forms. But now I want to give you the meat of why I am writing this. To show you the things that were a big part of helping me quit.
11 Tips for quitting chewing tobacco
Go cold turkey
You have to quit dipping cold turkey. I tried the step down method and it didn’t work because the habit is still there. So if you are only dipping once per day, you are still dipping and it will be harder to quit because you haven’t broke the habit. I tried so many times to slowly get off of the chew and only finally kicked it after I went cold turkey. So get rid of all of your cans and go for it fully when you are ready.
Set a Quit Date
I used the birth of my first daughter and a date prior to the birth as my quit date. When I set this date in the future, I knew positively that this would be it and it helped me convince myself that it was just the reality of it. Pick a date in the near future and let everyone know about the date. Leo Babauta also talks about making a plan in his quitting smoking article over at Zenhabits.net.
Tell Everyone
You need to feel accountable to someone for quitting. I told my partner, family and friends about my plan to quit. This helped because as I built up towards that quit date I knew that I would be letting people down if I didn’t make it. The more people you tell the better.
Find Your Outlet
Exercise is a good outlet but if not exercise then find something that fills the void. So when you feel like having a chew you can just do this new thing to take your mind off of it. Exercise seems to be the best because the act of exercising actually changes your mindset and physically helps you get through it. This was one of the biggest reasons why I was able to quit. Try hiking if you aren’t into the gym and if you have kids and think it can’t be done take a look at this article.
Eat Snacks
You are going to crave the chew. So when you do crave it, have something always with you that you can eat. A good healthy alternative like carrots, nuts, energy bar or anything that you find enjoyable and fills the void. Here is some snack information if you don’t know where to start and here are my favorite snacks.
Gum Works
I used sugar free gum to help me through the early quitting process. But really anything that fills that void will work. Sunflower seeds are good as well. After you get into being on the wagon for a while you will likely loose the craving for gum and just be good with it. This is a great feeling.
Drink Water
I used water as a game to help me quit. Whenever I felt like a chew, I just drank water instead. This made me feel great and took my mind off of chew for a period. Then when I got the craving again I would have that nice metal bottle next to me. I would try to drink 64 ounces of water per day. 3 Bottles was my goal.
Look at Other Success Stories
I had this friend who was really unhealthy and annoying and kind of not a great friend. Well, he quit chewing a few years before me. When I quit chewing I would always make a note and remind myself that if he could do it, I could do it. I also have a very good friend, Tyler, who left a big quote in my mind: something like “I will not be a slave to the can, I will be free”. Tyler, maybe you can clarify in the comments below.
Save Some Cash
Figure out exactly how much money you will be saving from not buying chew and put this into a savings fund. It will blow you away how much this adds up. Use this monthly savings to ultimately treat yourself by travelling somewhere special each year.
A List of Reasons WHY
Sit down for a half hour and make a list of all of the reasons why you want to quit chewing. This might be family, health, money,etc. Whatever comes to your mind just dump it out on the paper. Then go back through and make a short list that you can keep handy. I put the list into my phone and reminded myself to look at it once per week at least. Or when you really felt like having a chew, just pull out the list to reinforce why you are doing it.
Conclusion
Quitting chewing tobacco is not going to be easy, I know, I know……… You already know that because you’ve already tried a few times.
Ultimately you have to want to quit tobacco. There is nobody that can make you do it. You have got to dig down deep and determine why you want to do it and step up to the plate. You can do this!
One big thing I have learned later in life is that change is almost always a great thing. Seth Godin said it well in this quote: “Change is not a threat, it’s an opportunity. Survival is not the goal, transformative success is.” Quitting chewing tobacco will be an amazing thing for you and will open many doors.
If you have already quit chewing (Tyler and Doug) leave a comment below that just says “I DID IT” so others will feel the Energy and Support. Or just click on one of the SOCIAL LINKS directly below this text to pass along the word.
If I did it I know you can. I hope something in this article helps you to take the next step to quitting chewing tobacco. Also, if you like this style of article and want to see more click on the link below to sign up for the email newsletter.
Congrats on your accomplishment. It is huge.
Thanks very much. I appreciate the feedback and really hope that some of these words might help a few people take the big step as well.
After 40 years I quit cold turkey and also saved a lot of money doing it. DS
The money is good but I think the health benefits are even bigger. I think are kids will all appreciate it if we stay on this planet a little longer and are able to make it on more camping trips. I was really bummed I couldn’t make the deer trip this year. I will be ready to go next year.
Thanks for the inspiration. This is something that I have dealt with for a number of years in our family. Hopefully some of the boys will take note and give quitting another shot.
You got the quote for the most part! Congrats brother! I know how hard it is. It’s been over 5 years now and I am never going back.
I (like Dave) prioritized dipping as part of my outdoor activities. I couldn’t remember the last time I had gone fishing, hunting, hiking, rafting or worked in the field without having a chew in. Now I do all those things without even a thought about Ol’ Cope.
All I can say is its worth it financially and health wise. It’s gojng to be hard, perhaps one of the hardest things you will ever do personally, but aren’t you worth it?
T.
Great comment Tyler. A very solid nugget for the folks looking to join us on the amazing ride of Tobacco free. I agree completely and know every single person that reads this and moves forward to quit dipping will agree.
I found this sight today during my desperate attempt to gather as much info as possible on how to quit dip. I started at 18 and am now 41. My biggest triggers are hunting and fishing. I have tried several times before only to get in a deer stand or jon boat and feel like im going crazy. Im ready to take this leap. Thank you for the inspiration. I really hate that i have allowed myself to be such a slave to this crap!
You can do this! I was as addicted as anyone in the world. I loved a nice dip on the elk stand or when swinging flies for steelhead. The great thing is, now, I not only feel better physically, but actually have more energy to do those things. It’s tough early, but you will love being on the other side. Check back in with me anytime if you need support.
Great story, congrats. I have been chewing Cope for around 20 years – the habit began in the Army and continued on until about 20 hours ago. The first day has been pure hell, but your story pulled me through today, much appreciated.
Thanks for the feedback Nick. Your comment made my day. You’ll feel amazing, eventually just give it some time buddy.
After I read your story I’m not chewing since 3 hours and threw all tobacco stuff . Wish me luck ???? I really want to quit
Good luck. You can do it. I wasn’t feeding you crap. I love the stuff more than anyone and if I can do it you can. Send me a message anytime you need support and I’ll help you through it.
today i have decided to quit this shit forever…i have been dipping from the last 15 years…wish me luck…
Good luck! You got this.
Dave I connected with your experiences more than any other site. I’ve decided to quit tonight then went online for resources and stumbled here. Thank you for the insight, I’ve been a slave to nicotine for too long and I’m excited for peace of mind.
Mike,
Everything I wrote has held to this day. I have not had a dip since then and feel so good today. I know you can do it because I was one of the worst addicts. Hang in there and send me a message any time you need support here.
I have printed this out and have left on my husband pillow, I a myself was a smoker and tried quitting many years and finally did 10 years ago you are right COLD TURKEY is the only way and like chewing is to remember to never take a puff or dip again I been wanting my husband of 20 years to quit so he will grow old with me. I hope your story will help him wish me luck and him
Thanks
Wow, that is very powerful. Thank you for the comment. I hope that he can do it. As I sit here now 4 years into it, I feel better than ever.
So yes I’m a women and I chew..but my family hated it. And I just keep on doing it. When I drive. First thing in the shower. After eating. While hunting which is alot. Chores. Etc. Well I’ve been having stomach issues and is having a GI scope done soon. And last night I throw up some blood and etc and I’m throat is so sore to swallow even water now. I need to stop chewing now. And my husband kinda begged me to stop. I pray I’m not to late.
I can only tell you that anything is possible. “It always seems impossible until it is done.” -Nelson Mandela
You can do this and when you change your life now, you are going to be blown away from the opportunities that arise. Stay positive and you’ll be ok. I’ve had similar thoughts in my life and know that our mind can do crazy things to our physical bodies. You got this Nicky. We are all in with you on this.
Dave, I’m glad I came across this article because there’s plenty out there about quitting smoking but not dipping, it’s just different. I’m 38 and been dipping cope since 18 and I’m just ready to quit, I’m tired of being dependant on it and yeah it’s a nasty habit. I’m doing it for me and my three kids and thanks for the encouragement.
Any time. I love getting the feedback and knowing that I am helping others change their lives for the better. Check back in and give me an update or if you need more support.
I did it. And I did it 536 days ago with the help of a support group website. There are a bunch out there, but http://www.quittingdip.com offers solid brotherhood and accountability to help you defeat this evil addiction.
Congrats to you, Dave. Quit with you!
Thanks for the link, I know that will be helpful for many people that find this article in the future. As you know, it’s a life changer for so much the better. I am at a place now where I don’t think i would have been if not for quitting. Thank you!
I’m over 30 days quit now and it started with this article right here. Life is a lot better without that nasty habit, if you’re reading this and thinking about quitting do it, you’ll be so glad you did.
Can I get an AMEN! Amen brother. This is amazing. I hope that if you are on the fence right now, Walt’s testimonial will help you over the top. Love it. Let’s keep this going. Who else wants to join us today. Leave a comment and let us hold you accountable.
I quit 10 days ago and it started with this article. It’s been difficult but Dave and everyone else’s stories are giving me the motivation to keep going and not turn back.
Thanks Zach. We’re all with you buddy. Use the community to keep things going strong!
Awsome story Dave. I’m 23 days dip free today. Quite a few times already but never kept it going. This time feels different. I have two awesome little boys that I would love to spend as much time as possible with. Today was a little rough which led me to your story. Thanks for sharing and giving me the inspiration to keep it going.
You got it Daniel. You are past the really hard part. I’ve lost track of how long it’s been for me, but I can tell you I’m in such a better spot now. For myself and for my family. I do have a brother that can’t give it up and it kills me. I think I’ll share this article again with him and let him read your comment and the others.
Thanks for sharing. You are giving inspiration to many others so they will appreciate that. Check in with me anytime if it gets hard again. Like I said in the article, if I can do it, anyone can. I used to love that shit.
thanks awesome god bless you. i used Chewing Tobacco for 20 years . last month i felt very bad so i plan to Quitting Chewing Tobacco. i did . last 20 days i am facing lot problem i am not able to sleep i lost some weight please help me . thank
You can do it, you just have to hang in there. It will get easier with time. You might want to contact a doctor or someone that can give you some medical advice on the issues you are having.
If you can just hold on a little longer you will get there.
I have a son 21 years old who “dips” and I just hate it. I, myself am a 2 time cancer survivor. Never smoked, or drank and kept a healthy weight. Just bad family genes. Which makes it harder for me to see him take this risk. I know firsthand how devastating cancer is. My son tells me it’s his choice. He won’t listen to me or my husband when we tell him it’s a bad choice. We will do anything to help him quit. No one in our family has this nasty habit. Not even a smoker. It’s hard for us to understand the addiction to nicotine. I will show him this and pray it will encourage him to quit.
I hear your struggle. We are here to help so check in anytime if you need support.
i have decided to quit this shit for good…i have been dipping from the last 15 years…wish me luck and i need your help as i go through it
I’ll be here anytime you need help to get this done. Check back here anytime and we will help you through it. Just keep on it. If you take a falter, get back up and keep going.
My husband recently quit, after dipping for about 25 years. It’s been 2 weeks and he’s doing great with. Withdrawals and such although he’s having a tough time with stomach issues. Have you heard of this? Constipatiin and diahrrea (goes back and forth) so if that’s TMI…..I’m just a little concerned. Any advice of non-traditional side effects after quitting would be great!
You might want him to check in with an acupuncturist if the symptoms continue. There is a chance that it’s just his body adjusting to a big change so could take time. But, I’m no medical doctor so it’s always a good idea to checkin. I don’t remember having these issues when I quit but things get foggy.
Really awesome to hear and say congratulations for me! His live is going to be much greater from here on out.
Thank so so much!!
I’m glad it was helpful!
Hi Dave,
My name is Spencer i’ve been chewing for about 7 years now. I originally got into chew from a friend. We are best friends and most of my close friends chew. A few days ago i decided to make a few changes in my lifestyle. No more chewing was by far the biggest one. I cold turkey quit about 4 days ago and i am at a breaking point. Chewing had a lot of appealing aspects to me at the time i started. I was a big smoker since i turned 17 so i had been trying to get off cigs for awhile when my friend told me about chewing tobacco. At first i didn’t want to even try it and then after the initial dip i couldnt believe i was smoking cigarettes and smelling crappy that whole time when i could have been chewing. Present day and i feel like at 25 my gums and teeth don’t particularly enjoy how sensitive they have become, how i grind my teeth at night, not to mention how much the fiancee hates it. Since its a new year and all i have thought about major changes that i can do in my life to improve my health, relationships, and stress levels from work and quitting chewing was one of the things at the top of the list. I’m 4 days in to not taking a dip and I can’t even begin to tell you all the triggers that are itching at me to just run to the store by a can and throw a nice horseshoe in. Can you tell me what things you used as motivation to keep from going to the store and buying logs or even a single can when you decided to quit for good. Obviously the medical benefits should be enough to really stop me from wanting to go get a nice fresh can of wintergreen but i seem to keep getting closer and closer to saying screw it i can quit later and get a can. please let me know what helped you and if anyone else has ides please feel free to respond.
I can tell you got this Spencer, no question about it. It’s just a matter of time. My motivation was huge for me but for everyone it’s different. Here’s some little things I thought about: That friend I had that couldn’t quit anything, quit before me. If he can do it, you can do it. It is totally doable, just give it a few weeks. It will get easier. When you come out of it you will be thanking yourself. My life has changed for the better in so many ways after quitting.
I think I am coming up on 5 years without a dip and it was only really hard the first month. Really the first 2 weeks is the big part. If you are into it 4 days, your are almost halfway there my man.
The pain thing is kind of fun. You know, like enjoy the pain of your body wanting the dip. Take in that feeling and enjoy that your body, mind etc want it. The pain of not getting it. I don’t maybe that’s weird but it helped me sometimes.
Hang in there and check back in at your 2 week mark.
dave
Hi Dave my name is Brandon and the struggle is definately real!! I’ve read a lot of forums the last couple days and your story seems weirdly similar to mine! From the dip accompanied activities you mentioned to embracing the pain! “Cope” has been almost like a mistress for a long time (18 years) and I’m flat out sick of it but i can’t seem to get over the hump! I’ve quit twice over the past 3 years since my son was born and both times a major trigger got me at the 14 day mark! My mother bought me some patches last week so I went for it and made it 4 days and I don’t think they are for me! Cold turkey is the only way I think! I know I can do it and this time feels different somehow! I don’t think I need to even mention how my wife feels about it! Also, I know your not a therapist or anything but my best friend died when we were 17 and as childish as it is cope was kinda our thing so I’ve always had a weird comfort in that! Nicotine is no joke on the mind and I want it away from me but it keeps dragging me along! Sorry for the lengthy message I’m not usually a person who talks about anything really to anyone but my wife so this is one of the things I’m trying to do differently this time by connecting with other successful quitters!
There is a lot of powerful stuff there Brandon but what stuck out to me most is your point that you already quit for 14 days. Which means you’ve already done it!! You just need to do that again this time it will be easier to do it for good. The 2 week point is kind of a major turning point. If you can make it to 3 weeks, I think you will do it.
I understand all of the points you discuss and they are valid. But you want to quit. I can tell that. And that’s the most important thing. Set you plan and do it. Check back here if you need more support. We are like twins with the stories. And as you know I was as addicted as anyone. Go for it man, you will thank yourself down the line.
I started a new business because of it. Would have never thought about that. It will open up doors. go ahead and make it happen.
I’m with you brother!!
dave
Did you stay quit? If not….
1. Your mind is stronger than Cope’s hold
2. Quit for your son
3. Quit for the memory of your friend
4. Quit for your wife
5. Quit for yourself
Life on the other side is full of no more fear and guilt!
Well said Andy. Thank you!
I’m going to do it. I’m going to do it. Im 38 with 4 kids. I started smoking at 13. I quit smoking when i had my first kid 12 yrs ago. And took up this awesome habit of dipping. I admit, i love it. But its time to stop. I get out of breath easy, my gums are disappearing, and it costs too much money. Iv’e been dipping 2 tins of Skoal straight for yrs now and its getting out of hand. I find any chance i can to put a pinch in. Take the trash out? Put a dip in. Gotta take a dump? Put a dip in. Theres been nights my wife wanted to fool around and all i can think is, “i wish i was in the basement dipping watching tv” lol. Thats pretty bad.
So enough is enough. I want to be around to watch my kids grow. I really dont want to cash out early just because i enjoy dipping. Thats ridiculous. I hope im ready for what lies ahead. I know its going to be the hardest thing ive ever done. But im ready. Wish me luck.
It’s all you, as I’ve said before I loved chew more than anyone in the world and I quit. you can to.
Just found your message board. Very inspiring. Just had a sit down with my wife and she voiced her concern. Been chewing for 15 years now and finally ready to make the commitment to quit. We have 3 young kids and ready to be a better example for them. I hate the urge and dependence it creates. Priorities have to shift. Thanks guys!
no problem Luke. How is it going?
I’ve been dipping since I was 12 years old. Middle school football was what got me hooked. Now, I’m 25, in the military, married, and still dipping. I actually have one in now. I’ve been trying to quit for years. However, I know it’s a mind over matter kind of challenge. Unfortunately (fortunately), my wife hates it and it’s putting a damper on the marriage. I’ve been saying it for a long time, but I HAVE TO QUIT! I’ve read this post about 17 times already. Hopefully, by God’s grace and good encouragement and support, I can quit! If you pray, pray for me…if you don’t, then pray for me haha. I need it! I can do it! I will do it! Thank you for sharing this! God bless!
You got it Jake. I’m here if you need help. The time is now. Let’s do it!
Hi dave!
I am chewing tobacco since last 8 years and i have quit it from last 3 days…i feel depressed …but your story keeps me motivated all the time……i want to live healthy lifr with my family …..
I can tell you that I have done it and it feels good. If I can do it you can. I fucking loved chew and gave it up. so can you!
Gonna attempt to quit starting tommorrow, i literally just put my last dip in. My quit date was Jan 4th but I’ve decided to bump it up ans go for it! I quit in basic for 3 month because i was made too so i kmow i can do it, i just wasn’t ready then. Thanks for the tips and ill check back in in 3-4 weeks to let you know how it went!
Thanks for checking in Josh. You got this. Please leave a message when you have quit for good.
Congratulations on not only quitting Dave, but for paying it back in creating this blog. Look at all you have inspired! It is amazing how many stories mirror one another – started early, dipping for twenty years or so, now want to see my kids grow. I fit that profile to the letter. Dipping is interwoven into everything that we do, consuming us. When you wake up twice with a dip still in and with a stained pillow, it’s time! I just celebrated 5 years and made a promise to my daughter that I wouldn’t break for anything. I never thought I could do it either, and like you Dave I had a good amount of failed attempts. It’s life or death gentlemen. Do you want to be remembered as the guy who died a horrible death marked by disfigurement? Focus on your breathing and slow down. Do whatever it takes and quit now…..
We don’t talk much about cancer here because it’s a given, but there’s another reason. My partner’s dad just died of mouth cancer. Chew is pretty evil. I’m glad you are with all of us and took the time to show your support.
I am on day 5 from quitting cold turkey. This is my 5th or 6th time trying to quite, but I know in my heart this is the last time, I actually won’t to verse thinking I should. I am currently using coffee as a replacement. My biggest problem right now is the feeling like I have lost a best friend, I want one so damn bad. What’s good to do to get over these hurtles. Also thanks for caring about other people enough to set up this blog.
Sorry for the late reply. I hope you are still with it, and if not try again. It took me 20 times or whatever and now I haven’t had a dip for 6 years. you can do it.
dave
Found this blog site and am inspired. Am trying to lower my blood pressure which is very high, in part due to years of dip. I stopped drinking 3 months ago and figure that now is a good time to get rid of this dirty habit. Wish I had never started in the first place but my journey starts today with no more chewing. Hope to be back with good news soon.
We are all with you Mark. You will feel better, no question. It’s all mental. There is some physical but it’s mostly mental. Take it day by day. And let’s quit the dip.
Im on dAY 7…………….ive tried quitting so many times. I started chewing 23 years ago on a NOLS course in Alaska and, up until a week ago, could not successfully quit. It’s so hard. This morning as I was laying in bed I thought to myself how stupid have I been.
Literally ten minutes later I was craving a dip.
And here’s the most embarrassing thing – Im a woman. I have found that chewing has kept me thin and Im terrified of getting fat but Im more terrified of getting cancer. Since quitting my mouth is killing me but I don’t see any sores or anything (funny how when you dip you never look at your mouth but once you quit you look at it every chance you get) Im too scared to see a dentist (for now). Thanks for sharing your story. I hope I don’t die from this shit
Day 7!! Woohoo. You are almost there. If you get another week in you will be past a major turning point. It will still be challenging but you will be on your way.
I tell my story each time, but it is no lie that I loved chewing more than anyone. I loved it so much yet I quit. So can you. Now is the time. If you hit a week. you can do 2 week. if you can do 2 weeks you can do a month. Etc, etc until you are with me at almost 6 years without a dip. Cancer is real. Is your life worth more in the longrun? plus, you will feel better without it. Trust me. you got this!
Awesome post. I too have been chewing since I was 15… now am 50. I’m a Montana guy, always fishing, etc…loved chewing outside, but it seems like I always have one in. I started thinking about how ridiculous it was to be chewing 2 cans a week, however I’m kind of cocky in the sense that I truly have always believed that I won’t get cancer. I mean, after all…you always see people who don’t drink, don’t smoke, whatever…and they get cancer. Just doesn’t seem that it will happen to me, thus I never figured I needed to quit. Have tried a few times over the years..always went back to it. Well, for,some reason, your site got to me…my “ quit date” is when I’m done with this can…which will be in like 2 days…wish me luck…guess it’s time.
Awesome Kevin. How did it go. Please reply back if you have quit or reply back if you are still working on it. Bottom line, just replying here shows that you are ready to do it. Great work.
Two days dip free and came across your article. Thank you for the tips. Dave did you notice marks in your mouth from long term dipping? How long did that take to go away?